Tributes & Deposits

Beginner's Sampler Platter & Power Exchange

Most of the types of sessions I do are best suited for 2 - 4 hours to overnight/weekends.

Depending on the complexity, some sessions require a tribute beyond what's posted here.

Tributes start at

1-1/2 hours:

(for returning subs only)

900.

2 hours:

1000.

3 hours:

1500.

4 hours:

1900.

5 hours:
2375.

6 hours:

2800.

7 hours:

3200.

8 hours:

3600.

Dinner & Domination

Perfect way to get to know each other and break the ice before you submit

We can meet at a restaurant near my studio or for privacy order a meal to be delivered to the dungeon.

5 hour minimum

Customized Adventure Sessions

Starts at $600 for the hour depending on the level of preparation required to execute your fantasy (memorization of your script, acquiring costumes, decorating the dungeon or moving furniture around, etc.) Best discussed over a phone call first. TextLydia.com to set up a time for a call or text me an introduction along with your fantasy to see if we're a good fit. 1-1/2 hours & up

Travel

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Full Immersion, Overnight & Weekend Experiences

Overnight Sessions

Starting at 7 PM or 8 PM until 12 hours later, 4000+.

Includes 7 hours of sleep in a cage (Chicago location)

Want to start earlier or end later? Each additional hour is 400.

Perfect for dinner & domination or an introductory to immersion.

Playing throughout the night (no sleep): 7000+.

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10 - 12 hour immersion

Starting between 10 AM - 12 noon up until up to 12 hours later: 4500+.

This is a flat rate tribute for up to 12 hours.

Perfect for an all-day slavery immersion, attending a fetish event, dinner, kink photoshoots (indoor or outdoors),

shopping or social outings around the city mixed with your session

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24-hour enslavement starts at 5400.

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48-hour weekend immersion (inquire).

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TextLydia to inquire adding additional hours or longer engagements.

The More the Merrier:

From time to time I host close Mistress friends of mine at my dungeon who are available for doubles. This is always advertised on the home page as well as my social media platforms. If you don't see it advertised on the front page it means no one is available to join.

Bi fantasy sessions where you are the center of attention are available with my dominant male friends (Bill in Chicago and Teo in NYC). The additional tribute for a stud to join us is $500 for the first hour and $400 each additional hour. Available to subs who have submitted to me one-on-one at least once before.

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Deposits Explained for Newbies

de·pos·it

noun

"a sum payable as a first installment on the purchase or something

or as a pledge for a contract, the balance being payable later."

A 50% or more deposit is required to book me for your session, sometimes more particularly if you are booking an extended session, I am in another city and a dungeon needs to be rented for the session or a hotel room booked, if you have a history of canceling or if special supplies, wardrobe or props are purchased. I take deposits via 3 popular payment apps that are all discreet.

I do accept deposits via Amazon gift card for an additional $50 fee per hour fee (this fee does not go towards your final tribute). The reason being is that cash is what pays for dungeon rent and utilities, BDSM gear, latex outfits, flights to session in other cities, hotels and cab rides, not Amazon gift cards. And unfortunately, my landlords, T-mobile, Comcast, gas, electric, and insurance companies do not accept Amazon gift cards either. Most people would not enjoy having their incomes paid to them in the form of gift cards and I am no exception.

For those of you concerned about sending me a deposit, rest assured that being in the industry since 2008 and this being my full-time career, I am not interested in marring my professional reputation over such a small amount. Unless your deposit contains several zeros following a 1 or higher (enough for me to retire on), it’s simply not worth risking my reputation over. If in the past you have allowed your little head to make a poor judgement and sent money to a scam artist, allow yourself time to heal so you can trust again. Men with trust issues aren't fun to dominate.

A deposit assures me of a couple of things: a). that you are serious about showing up for your session, b). that if you decide not to show up, I am at least partially compensated for my lost time when I could have taken another session.

Deposits are non-refundable. After all, by definition, that's what a deposit is (see above). Your deposit can be put towards a future session within 28 days only if you cancel with a 72-hour notice. Naturally, only if the new date you seek isn't already booked. This is why it's important to book only when you are sure of your schedule.

When you book a session, I block out that time frame just for you and reserve the dungeon for your session. It also means I decline other sessions. The very sessions that pay for the dungeon that I created for my subs and slaves to enjoy. The more last minute your cancellation, the less chance I have of re-booking for that time slot. Unfortunately, due to some bad eggs, there are no exceptions for same day "emergencies". Many subs are nervous before meeting me for the first time and I have heard it all- from feigned injuries to supposed last minute business trips to a grandmother's third funeral. I am very strict about this policy. Do not embarrass yourself by asking to be an exception. It will guarantee that I do not desire your company. It has been a common practice for professionals to protect their businesses from missed appointments I, too, have paid for missing dentist, doctor, hair, or massage therapy appointments. Yes, it sucks, but it's not fair for the businesses who take care of my needs and who I am thankful for existing to suffer financially just because I did poor planning and got stuck in traffic or at the last minute I prioritized to do something else other than my booked appointment. Like other types of professionals, dominatrixes also have an overhead to cover, so I expect the same courtesy I pay to other business owners.

If you do not show up for your appointment or cancel after 10 PM the night before - the day of, you will be sent an invoice for your missed appointment. It will have to be paid before a future appointment can be booked.

If you are unsure of your schedule, it's best to wait to book until you are certain you'll be able to make it. Until a deposit is paid, I am unable to hold an appointment.

Tipping & Gifts

While not required, tokens of appreciation are always graciously accepted and appreciated. See SpoilLydia.com for gift ideas, but I do prefer cash gifts which I put in a special savings account to go towards my dream of opening a women's shelter for the empowerment of disadvantaged women.